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Kendall Rasmusson and her late brother, Sgt. John Kyle Daggett. (Facebook)

Family Of Late Iraq Veteran Told To Remove Their Memorial Day Tribute By HOA

Kendall Rasmusson proudly displays a banner tribute honoring her brother, Sgt. John Kyle Daggett, who died serving in Iraq, yet her homeowners' association (HOA) branded it a "nuisance," she said.

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The Surprise, Arizona, resident, whose front lawn boasts patriotic flags and decorations, received a letter from Trestle Management Group on May 7 demanding she remove the banner of Daggett, killed at 21 in a 2008 grenade attack in Baghdad. Consequently, the HOA's decision has ignited widespread outrage in the suburban Phoenix community.

The letter, obtained by AZFamily, compared the banner to "dead plants," "rubbish," and "debris," deeming it "unsightly" under HOA regulations. Rasmusson found the comparison deeply offensive.

"It was painful to see my brother's memorial grouped with nuisances," she told AZFamily. Moreover, the HOA claimed the banner, displayed for months, violated rules permitting decorations only 30 days before and 10 days after holidays like Memorial Day.

HOA Causes Community Outcry

Frustrated, Rasmusson shared her story on a local social media page, prompting Trestle to send a follow-up email. The company clarified it meant no disrespect, explaining the banner's prolonged display classified it as a permanent fixture, not a holiday decoration. For instance, HOA rules often enforce uniform aesthetics, limiting decoration size and placement.

However, Rasmusson faced a similar issue in 2018 when a previous management company fined her $500. An online petition overturned that fine, allowing the banner for holidays like Independence Day and Veterans Day. Nevertheless, the new management seems unaware of or unwilling to honor this agreement.

The HOA's stance sparked fierce community backlash. Tony Cuchiara, a friend of the Rasmusson family, visited Daggett's grave in Washington, D.C., and denounced the HOA's actions as a "violation of our rights" on Facebook. He demanded accountability, calling the decision "absolute horse****." Similarly, neighbor Nancy Bash expressed dismay, writing, "Shame on that HOA. This young man gave his life for our freedom." Many suspect a neighbor's complaint triggered the citation, though the HOA cited a routine inspection.

Fight to Preserve a Legacy

Rasmusson remains steadfast in honoring her brother's sacrifice. Furthermore, the community's support, amplified on social media, reflects shared anger over the HOA's insensitivity.

As Surprise residents rally, the dispute raises questions about balancing community standards with personal tributes. Ultimately, Rasmusson's resolve to keep her brother's memory alive persists, fueled by a community that reveres Daggett's heroism.